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Jezebel.com has a post up today about a mother’s failed attempt at book banning in her child’s school library at Thiesen Middle School in Fond du Lac, Wisconsin. She attempted to have the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants series removed, as well as Get Well Soon by Julie Halpern, What My Mother Doesn’t Know and One of Those Hideous Books Where the Mother Dies, both by Sonya Sones.
I found it to be particularly interesting because I’m currently in an honors course on banned books. Just last week, we began discussion on Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut. Our preliminary discussion of the book included reference to its role in the Supreme Court case, Island Trees School District v. Pico. A teacher in the school district decided to teach Slaughterhouse-Five. One of the girls in his class told her mother that the book had some objectionable content, one thing led to another, and soon a janitor was made to burn copies of the book in the school furnace. The decision was challenged by many of the students, and a few of them (including Pico) took the school district to court. Ultimately, the United States Supreme Court ruled that “local school boards may not remove books from school library shelves simply because they dislike the ideas contained in those books and seek by their removal to ‘prescribe what shall be orthodox in politics, nationalism, religion, or other matters of opinion.’”
The St. Petersburg Times ran a story Sunday about a 13 year old girl who committed suicide over a “sexting” incident (or rather, she committed suicide after being unfairly punished and teased for taking and sending nude photos).
To summarize, Hope Witsell, a student at Beth Shields Middle School in Florida, had sent a nude picture of herself to an older boy she liked. The picture got sent to almost everyone at the middle school and even the local high school. Hope had to endure a ridiculous amount of teasing – kids calling her “whore” and “slut” – and even had to sacrifice her position as a student advisor for her school’s chapter of the FFA, which was a real blow to her. Her parents punished her (although it was nothing overly harsh) and tried to get her counseling. A few days before her suicide, Hope was sent to see the school’s social worker after someone noticed cuts on her legs. She signed a contract saying she would stop self-harming, and the case was closed. Her parents were never notified. The next day, Hope hung herself from her bed canopy.
This is the second reported sexting-related suicide in America. The first casualty was Jessie Logan, an 18 year old student in Cincinnati who sent her boyfriend nude photos of herself. When they broke up, he forwarded them to others. Jessie had to endure the taunting and name-calling (she was referred to as “the porn queen”), had drinks dumped on her at school, and was thrown out of a few graduation parties. Even though she had previously taken a stand against the torture – even going so far as to appear on a local television show to speak to other girls about the dangers of sexting – it eventually got to be too much and she killed herself two months after the incident.
There are a few reasons why I felt compelled to write about this. Read the rest of this entry »
Why do people always assume that if a person voted for President Obama, then they must “love” him, or think that he’s their “savior,” or whatever rot. Yes, there are plenty of people who think this. But there are also plenty of people, myself included, who voted for him because he is a Democrat, and they are Democrats as well. I voted for him because I couldn’t vote for Hillary Clinton, and he was the next best thing. I don’t agree with him on some things and I’m as worried about the economy as anyone else. Yes, I voted for him, and yes, I’ll give him my support and trust, but that doesn’t mean that I’m going to bow down and worship him, nor am I unable to see his flaws.
There’s been a lot of talk about homosexuality lately, what with Miss California’s statements during the Miss USA competition the other day. Whatever your opinions on gay marriage, the fact remains that homophobia is wrong. I understand that some people are against homosexuality for religious reasons, and it’s not my place to tell someone their religion is wrong. HOWEVER, do you think that, were Jesus here today, He would be hateful about it? I don’t think so. I think seeing violence against homosexuals would make Him absolutely sick. I recall Him saying something along the lines of, “hate the sin, not the sinner.”
That’s why something like Jaheem Herrera’s suicide or Carl Joseph Walker- Hoover’s suicide makes me profoundly sad. Both of these boys were bullied because other kids at their school thought they were gay. Where do these kids get these opinions – that they should taunt and bully “gay” people (and that’s assuming that these boys were gay, or that they’d even matured enough to define their sexuality) – if not from their parents (or at least from the media that their parents expose them to)? In my opinion, the number one thing a parent could teach their child is to love and accept everyone. Equality is an idea that has to be ingrained in a person from the very start. Kids should be taught that men and women, homosexuals and heterosexuals, poor people and rich people, fat people and skinny people, and every race and religion should be treated with the same respect they’d want to be treated with.
It’s truly sad, and my thoughts are with those families. For more information, visit this site.